As the season reaches full swing, now is the time to start thinking about your future. I’m not talking about flirting in the traditional sense—but rather, “flirting” with your next potential team. This is about planting seeds for opportunities that could come up next season, and trust me, the moves you make now can open doors later on.
When you’re performing well, your stock is high, and teams are paying attention. This is the perfect time to start positioning yourself for your next career move—without breaking any rules. In this blog, I’ll walk you through how to subtly network and make a lasting impression on opposing teams and their staff. Think of it as strategic relationship-building for your future.
Play it Smart, Play it Subtle
First off, let’s be clear—you cannot openly express interest in joining another team. Doing so would breach your current contract and could jeopardize your reputation. Instead, it’s about being subtle and strategic in your approach.
There are three key ways to start building those bridges:
1. Befriend Opposing Players
In today’s game, players are more connected than ever, and it’s easier to create positive relationships with athletes on other teams. Gone are the days of cutthroat competition where players avoided socializing with the opposition. Now, it’s common for athletes to help each other out—even when they’re on opposing sides.
So, when you bump into an opposing player after a game, at social events, or even on social media, take the opportunity to build rapport. You can mention how cool it would be to play together someday, or just keep things casual with small talk. While it might not result in immediate opportunities, players often have the ear of their coaches and management—and your name could come up in conversation down the line.
2. Communicate with Staff & Management (Carefully)
This one requires a delicate balance. You don’t want to outright say you’re interested in joining their team—that’s risky and could backfire. But making a positive, memorable impression on the staff is a smart move. Teams notice friendly, professional players both on and off the court. Your performance speaks for itself, but how you interact with their staff could be the cherry on top.
A simple gesture, like a strong handshake or a quick chat with an opposing coach, can go a long way. Compliment the team, mention how impressed you were with their strategy, or even offer a light-hearted comment about the game. You never know when a coach or manager might remember your interaction and consider you for a future roster spot.
3. Use Social Media to Your Advantage
Social media is a powerful tool, and when used correctly, it can help you network without overstepping boundaries. There’s no harm in following opposing teams, coaches, or players on platforms like Instagram or Twitter. Liking posts, leaving the occasional comment, or even reposting highlights from games shows that you’re paying attention and engaging with the wider basketball community.
While team management may not be scrolling through comments, word tends to get around—especially when players or fans start to take notice of your engagement.
Keep Your Window of Opportunity Open
As athletes, we have a limited window of opportunity. Your career won’t last forever, and you need to make the most of it while you’re in the game. Networking, or “flirting,” is just part of the business. No one wants a player that no one else wants—so don’t be afraid to put yourself out there, but do it wisely and professionally.
If you need help navigating these crucial moments, SJM Consulting is here to guide you. Our expertise can help you make the right moves to secure your next opportunity. Contact us today to take the next step in your professional career.
Good luck and happy flirting!